Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough

**thebalvenie** · 07-22-2019, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by futurecalling

"Come here, child..."

https://www.instagram.com/p/B0NUaiNpn-p/

ugh.

nasty

**Tim Simmons** · 07-22-2019, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Loveishello86

who is Jason?

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Originally Posted by Bart

ViolaGal · 07-22-2019, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by futurecalling

"Come here, child..."

https://www.instagram.com/p/B0NUaiNpn-p/

*shudder*

Really creepy photo with no context at all. Though I supposed posting unflattering selfies isn't new...

**FavoriteEver** · 07-22-2019, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ViolaGal

*shudder*

Really creepy photo with no context at all. Though I supposed posting unflattering selfies isn't new...

If I'm not mistaken (and I might be), I'm pretty sure that photo was actually taken months ago when he was breaking up with Megan. Something about falling down and breaking his tooth.

Knotnow · 07-22-2019, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by ViolaGal

*shudder*

Really creepy photo with no context at all. Though I supposed posting unflattering selfies isn't new...

That’s what kind of has me confused with this whole thing. Not sure exactly what he’s going for. To be honest, I felt like his post was rambling and some of it didn’t really make sense to me. Then there’s the pics like this...

I just don’t feel like he’s going about making a “comeback” in the best way he could. So I wonder if this is the result of firing/losing his team and just doing it how he sees fit.

I'm rooting for him to get better/ do better, but I don’t think he’s there yet.

Knotnow · 07-22-2019, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by FavoriteEver

If I'm not mistaken (and I might be), I'm pretty sure that photo was actually taken months ago when he was breaking up with Megan. Something about falling down and breaking his tooth.

It does seem like he’s reposting old pics and clips from before the article huh? Like that big colors clip was on there too and I think it was just posted again after he resurfaced.

**Loveishello86** · 07-22-2019, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by futurecalling

"Come here, child..."

https://www.instagram.com/p/B0NUaiNpn-p/

it's already been taken down. Anyone have a screen shot?

**Sydneyfan** · 07-22-2019, 05:10 PM

It seems like he's just desperately trying to ignore everything that's happened.

'What teen sexting stuff?? Here's a cat video!!

I'm assuming his earlier statement and all his social media since are all his own idea. If someone's advising him, they are doing a terrible job.

dmorgan1 · 07-22-2019, 05:15 PM

Yeah he’s taken it down but I’m pretty sure if was posted around the time of his breakdown and teeth episode. Some of these posts are new but mostly posts of stuff he previously had. For his sake I hope he more to say on the whole thing rather than cat videos.

**thebalvenie** · 07-22-2019, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by dmorgan1

Yeah he’s taken it down but I’m pretty sure if was posted around the time of his breakdown and teeth episode. Some of these posts are new but mostly posts of stuff he previously had. For his sake I hope he more to say on the whole thing rather than cat videos.

nothing says sorry and accountability like a good rant sprinkled w/ some self-deprecating bullshit and a couple cat videos!!!!

ViolaGal · 07-22-2019, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by FavoriteEver

If I'm not mistaken (and I might be), I'm pretty sure that photo was actually taken months ago when he was breaking up with Megan. Something about falling down and breaking his tooth.

Ah, that makes sense.

**Durk** · 07-22-2019, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Sydneyfan

It seems like he's just desperately trying to ignore everything that's happened.

'What teen sexting stuff?? Here's a cat video!!

I'm assuming his earlier statement and all his social media since are all his own idea. If someone's advising him, they are doing a terrible job.

LOL

ViolaGal · 07-22-2019, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Sydneyfan

It seems like he's just desperately trying to ignore everything that's happened.

'What teen sexting stuff?? Here's a cat video!!

I'm assuming his earlier statement and all his social media since are all his own idea. If someone's advising him, they are doing a terrible job.

Yeah I think he's unleashed again. Someone should put the leash back on him.

I'm really surprised at how his reappearance has made me feel. It feels insincere to me, the cat pics, the "my brother died and I had a hard life," the selfies, the tweets. It's so lacking in self-awareness. I guess I wasn't ready.

So I unfollowed him.

Evidently I still had interest in the outcome of this story.
I stopped loving his new output the same way I loved his older material a while ago. It's been hard to let go because I still have interest in the outcome of his music, too.
But I think I'm done now. And I feel sad about that.

**Sydneyfan** · 07-22-2019, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ViolaGal

Yeah I think he's unleashed again. Someone should put the leash back on him.

Yep, they should. If his previous form is anything to go by, he'll only maintain the goofy, "nothing to see here" posts for a little while. The negative comments will get to him and he'll go all Gandhi-lite for a minute (lots of peace, love and understanding type responses to criticism), then he'll start losing it, getting snarky and lashing out. Maybe this time will be different because the stakes are much higher for him. Who knows.

**Tim Simmons** · 07-22-2019, 08:41 PM

Nailed it Syd

miked331 · 07-22-2019, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sydneyfan

Yep, they should. If his previous form is anything to go by, he'll only maintain the goofy, "nothing to see here" posts for a little while. The negative comments will get to him and he'll go all Gandhi-lite for a minute (lots of peace, love and understanding type responses to criticism), then he'll start losing it, getting snarky and lashing out. Maybe this time will be different because the stakes are much higher for him. Who knows.

This is exactly what’s going to happen

On a side note if Big Colors does come out and Doylestown Girl is still on it that would be some twisted creepy shit.

mustbeburt · 07-23-2019, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Loveishello86

it's already been taken down. Anyone have a screen shot?

Here you go.

**Loveishello86** · 07-23-2019, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by mustbeburt

Here you go.

looks like the cover of animal farm

**FavoriteEver** · 07-23-2019, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by miked331

This is exactly what’s going to happen

On a side note if Big Colors does come out and Doylestown Girl is still on it that would be some twisted creepy shit.

I mean, if all of those records were already pressed in all the variations, I don't see how they can take it off without spending a massive amount of money.

**Tim Simmons** · 07-23-2019, 11:44 AM

I don’t think the records were pressed.

**FavoriteEver** · 07-23-2019, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Tim Simmons

I don’t think the records were pressed.

Oh, I just figured they were since we were so close to getting them when they were scrapped (Big Colors at least). I also probably severely overestimate how much time it'd take to press all those records.

**Tim Simmons** · 07-23-2019, 02:00 PM

We were still 2 months out. Its possible they were pressed, but I'm guessing not for another month.

fr79 · 07-24-2019, 09:15 AM

I wonder who actually owns the Big Colors recordings. Think it would be Ryan/ Paxam. If it does come out, it probably wont be distributed through Blue Note now. The big labels will be staying away, this kind if thing sticks no matter the outcome.

futurecalling · 07-24-2019, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by fr79

I wonder who actually owns the Big Colors recordings. Think it would be Ryan/ Paxam. If it does come out, it probably wont be distributed through Blue Note now. The big labels will be staying away, this kind if thing sticks no matter the outcome.

Don Was is still liking his posts on Instagram.

fr79 · 07-24-2019, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by futurecalling

Don Was is still liking his posts on Instagram.

Hmmm

07-22-2019, 05:10 PM	#3233
Sydneyfan Evil wimmin powers Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 35,304	Re: Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough It seems like he's just desperately trying to ignore everything that's happened. 'What teen sexting stuff?? Here's a cat video!! I'm assuming his earlier statement and all his social media since are all his own idea. If someone's advising him, they are doing a terrible job.

07-22-2019, 05:15 PM	#3234
dmorgan1 Join Date: Sep 2015 Posts: 110	Re: Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough Yeah he’s taken it down but I’m pretty sure if was posted around the time of his breakdown and teeth episode. Some of these posts are new but mostly posts of stuff he previously had. For his sake I hope he more to say on the whole thing rather than cat videos.

07-22-2019, 08:41 PM	#3240
Tim Simmons Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 15,343	Re: Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough Nailed it Syd

07-23-2019, 11:44 AM	#3245
Tim Simmons Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 15,343	Re: Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough I don’t think the records were pressed.

07-23-2019, 02:00 PM	#3247
Tim Simmons Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 15,343	Re: Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough We were still 2 months out. Its possible they were pressed, but I'm guessing not for another month.

07-24-2019, 09:15 AM	#3248
fr79 Join Date: Feb 2014 Posts: 420	Re: Ryan Adams, abuse, the Stans, and people who believe no apology is good enough I wonder who actually owns the Big Colors recordings. Think it would be Ryan/ Paxam. If it does come out, it probably wont be distributed through Blue Note now. The big labels will be staying away, this kind if thing sticks no matter the outcome.

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